A message from Rev. Matthew J Skolnik, Transitional General Presbyter

Over the past weeks, the Coordinating Cabinet and the Vision Mission Task Force have both spent time reflecting on where we are as a presbytery and what a faithful next step should be. They have reached consensus that beginning with an introductory Seasons of Shalom conversation at our March 23 meeting is the next best step for us.

This is not a program to “roll out,” and it is not a decision we are trying to force. It is a way to practice shared discernment—together.

Here is what to expect:

• We will spend time in both large and small groups.

• Our posture will be listening, not fixing.

• We will look for shared patterns—what we are noticing, where there is energy, where there is resistance, and what stories keep repeating.

• We will aim for one small, faithful next step that demonstrates trust in Christ—realistic, time-bound, and owned by real people (not “the presbytery” in the abstract).

A Scripture that has been on my mind for us is John 21—the risen Jesus meeting the disciples not with a strategy document, but with presence, a meal, honest questions, and a renewed call: “Do you love me?” … “Feed my sheep.” That scene reminds me that Christian leadership begins in relationship—relationship with Christ and relationship with one another—and that renewal often starts with returning to first love, shared table, and truthful speech.

As you come on March 23, I’m inviting you to come prepared to:

• speak plainly but charitably

• listen for the Holy Spirit in voices that are not your own

• describe lived realities (not just opinions)

• and practice mutual trust—especially where we are tempted to withdraw, rush, or control

It seems to me that our next stated meeting will not be perfect, but it will be meaningful. We each have varying experiences with the wider church. Some of us are frustrated. Some aren’t sure what the point is anymore. Others have been hurt and have felt overlooked, dismissed, or simply tired of carrying too much for too long. And there are also those among us who have found real friendship, support, and renewed hope through PWR—moments where Christ has met us through one another.

Wherever you are on that spectrum, you belong in the room.

If you have misgivings, please come. If you feel skeptical, please come. If you feel hopeful, please come.

The only way we become a healthier collection of churches is together—by telling the truth in love, by listening without defensiveness, and by staying at the table long enough for trust to grow. This is the body of Christ. This is holy work.

I’m grateful for your willingness to keep showing up—especially in a complicated season. I’m praying that this meeting will be a turning point toward deeper trust, clearer calling, and a more faithful way of being together.

As you continue to receive updates for our next meeting, please pray—pray for open hearts, honest speech, deep listening, and for the Spirit of Christ to meet us as we gather.

Please reach out if you would like to talk about our gathering on March 23.

In Christ,

Matt